by Marc Chernoff | Jul 25, 2016 | Mind Games
We stress ourselves out… because of fantasies. We procrastinate to the point of failure… because of fantasies. We get angry with others, with ourselves, and with the world at large… because of fantasies. We miss out on many of life’s most beautiful and peaceful...
by Marc Chernoff | Jul 21, 2016 | Mind Games
Sometimes we feel cheated on by others. Sometimes we feel cheated on by our circumstances. Sometimes we feel cheated on by life itself. In any case, we are faced with the reality that things aren’t always what they seem – we don’t always get what we expect. And we...
by Marc Chernoff | Jul 11, 2016 | Mind Games
People are toxic to be around when they believe that everything happening around them is a direct assault on them or is in some way all about them. That is the truth. Let it sink in. What people say and do to you is much more about them, than you. People’s reactions...
by Marc Chernoff | Jul 6, 2016 | Mind Games
Too much to do, not enough time to do it. Sound familiar? Twenty-five years ago, at the dawn of the modern internet revolution, people were predicting that our technological advancements would eventually allow us to work less, so we could pay more attention to what’s...
by Marc Chernoff | Jun 29, 2016 | Mind Games
It’s not what you say to everyone else that determines your life – it’s what you whisper to yourself that has the greatest power. The most common problem with motivation, often not understood until later in life, is that when we say we’re looking for motivation, it...