1. Doing Laundry
He vanished for a month or two and when he re-started dialogue he said he was occupied doing laundry.
2. A Fight With His Roomie
He vanished for about monthly and then reemerged telling me that he’d gotten into a physical fight with his roommate and had broken his foot and dislocated his shoulder and that he was had been focused on coping with the consequences. !
At the time it appeared so outrageous that it needed to be authentic (who lies about that kind of thing?), but then he vanished again soon after, never to return, so who the fuck knows. Maybe his roommate finished him away.
3. & #8220;Sorry For The Large Delay”
It wasn’t truly ghosting as we hadn’t truly matched. Nevertheless, I traded a couple of messages with someone on OKCupid and he didn’t react to one of mine. I found he simply wasn’t interested and that was that.
Six months after he reacted to the message (I had a bad habit of not deleting things) saying, “Hey, sorry for the delay. I was somewhat active.” A bit active. For six months. I didn’t react and simply deleted the thread.
4. Lost His Telephone
Moron vanished for over a year and then texted me and asked for another date. Yes, he did this after the very first date.
& #8220;I lost my telephone the night we met.” “And you only got it back a year after?”
Screw you. I don’t even recall you. The very first fifteen minutes of our conversation was me attempting to nicely tell him he had the wrong number. The past fifteen minutes was telling him no, but thank you, I’m not interested in a threesome alongside you. !
5. Hidden Information
Multiple extremely good dates, excellent chemistry, and then abruptly nothing – not reacting to my messages, nothing. Usually I’d let it go but I was interested enough in this man to write him a decently-long e-mail asking for an explanation. !
A number of days after he suddenly called me and said he read my e-mail and still needed to go out but had been active. as soon as I asked him what was up he eventually – unwillingly – declared that he was technically still wed to someone (never told me he was wed at all) and needed to fly back to the state he lived in before as a way to finalize the divorce.
Not in any respect nonsensical, but threw me for a loop. I was 23 at the time, he was 27, if he hadn’t disclosed to it I’d never have anticipated him to have been wed.
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6. Low Level DJ Who Sells Weed
He blew me away because he needed to wed his Russian pal’s girlfriend to get her a green card. A couple months after he asked me out again. He’s a low level DJ and sells weed on the side so I’m not missing out on much.
7. The Lost Shirt
I was speaking to a man for a number of months and we’d hung out a couple times. The past time we hung out I ‘d seen him on base and it’d been raining and I had an extra shirt in my car , and so I shifted and inadvertently left the one I took off at his room. I actually adored the top I left. I texted him the next day asking when I really could come catch it and no response. A month after he texted me and said I couldn’t get the top because he threw it away because he didn’t need anyone that did a room test to understand a girl had been there. He also said he quit speaking to me because he met a girl he’d needed to move to California with when he got released from the military. I’m quite certain it was because I didn’t have sex with him, which is whatever but he could have been fair and said that was the motive.
8. Extreme Benching
Dated a man for 2 months, he decided we should ‘take a rest,’ and didn’t talk to me for 6 months. Abruptly, he’s apologizing and needs to be buds.
My theory? He found someone he liked better, got dropped, and desired my social life. Don’t take the coward’s manner outside next time failure.
9. “I Was Just Really Active At Work”
A man once ghosted me after we were dating for three months. He texted me a year as well as a half after, apologizing and asking for another opportunity. He said that he was occupied with work. Seemingly too preoccupied to really break up with me for eighteen months.
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10. But He Was Really A Coke Head
He stood me up for our java date. Sent him a text to tell him I was there when I arrived and I phoned him from the coffee area after he was about 30 minutes late. !
Entire radio silence for 3 days. !
When he finally called me back, he told me his sister had a family crisis, he needed to drive 2 cities around to her house so he could take her and her 2 children to the hospital (why wouldn’t she call an ambulance?) and he left his phone at home (funny how he didn’t call or text back when he was reunited with his telephone). !
Found out a couple months after that he was a complete cocaine head, and my speculation is that he was on a bender in the time we were supposed to meet up. !
11. 007
We went on a few dates, then I didn’t hear from him for a month or two, he then explained he was on a secret mission for the military.
12. “How’s Your Boyfriend Tho?”
Mine fully began ignoring me and then he messaged me on-line months afterwards after he found out I had a new boyfriend and it didn’t take him long to send me that because it was just recent I was with my new man. He said he expected things go good for me and that I’m joyful and asked me some questions about him. I was silly to answer and after a couple PM exchange, he was quiet again until Thanksgiving and we just spoke for just two minutes and he asked me about my boyfriend again and the same questions and I never heard from him again. That was the last time and he never said anything about him being silent on me. It was like nothing happened between us and he seemed like a cheerful guy like nothing terrible was happening in his life. I constantly found this quite odd how he came back and then vanished again.
13. I’m Moving To Kuala Lumpur
A girl I understood. He ghosted out saying he was moving to Kuala Lumpur, after they’d dated for three months, but hadn’t had sex (his choice). !
Afterward several months after he got back in touch. !
Turns out he really had a girlfriend, was cheating with her with this girl. Didn’t like her sufficient to break up with the girlfriend. But then the girlfriend ditched him. He’d never left town, definitely hadn’t went worldwide.
And he told her all this!!
