I used to believe waiting for someone you adore to be prepared is the best kind of flattery as well as the perfect statement of love.
It’s how all epic love stories unfold and individuals who waited are eventually rewarded for their patience when their lover comes back to them, then I ‘d a very easy epiphany- the most epic love stories begin when two people decide they like each other, they would like to be with each other and they would like to make the relationship work. Love isn’t constantly really going to be simple and there will always be compromises, but having to wait for someone for months or years to eventually choose to provide you with a opportunity shouldn’t be one of these. !
Acknowledge it, you don’t understand what you’re waiting for. Are you currently waiting for a statement of love? Are you currently waiting for someone to transform? Are you currently waiting for somebody to understand how faithful and patient you’re? Are you currently waiting for a signal? Whatever it’s you’re waiting for shouldn’t keep you waiting if it’s really worth it and also you must always ask yourself if you’re waiting for something which might never happen.
Waiting for someone means that you’re ok with that man treating you like you’re not significant or which you don’t deserve their time.
Waiting for someone means that you don’t value yourself sufficient to understand that if a person cares enough, they’re going to not keep you waiting or wondering. You’re picking to blind your own eyes from seeing the truth which will finally blindside you.
Waiting for someone isn’t an indication of strength or devotion, it’s a hint of refusal and blowing off what you already understand to be accurate. You may continue placing them on a base they don’t even understand they’re on, you may continue investing your all on nothing.
Waiting for someone means that you’re pouring salt in your own reductions and acting like it doesn’t burn. It indicates that you’ve consented to be the man they “settle” for after exploring all other alternatives. It indicates that you’re surrendering yourself to rejection over and over again and acting like it’s the natural process of waiting. !
Waiting for someone means you’re pushing away people that will willingly give what you’re waiting for and they’re eager to give it to you instantly. This means you’re telling the entire world that you don’t deserve the esteem and love that you simply give others, that you’re willing to compromise the most cherished parts of yourself for someone who doesn’t even make an effort to provide a little more.
As much as you deserve to be rewarded for your patience and as much as you deserve a person who comes back and eventually promises you, this really isn’t consistently true. You shouldn’t set aside yourself for anyone else, because when you lose a man for any reason you’re going to see that you’re on your own, and that you waited months or years for someone who didn’t end up executing the prophecy you created for them. Occasionally patience is a waste of time. !
In the event you need to wait; wait to be picked daily, wait to be reminded that you’re unique, wait to be adored in the way which you always adore, wait to be taken intently and wait for someone who doesn’t keep you waiting, since you understand that you deserve better than waiting around for somebody to make up their mind. ! 
Rania Naim is a poet and writer of the brand new novel All The Words I Should Have Said, accessible here.
