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[howl9999]

HI. In my country, there is this singles' event. Singles will sign up for the events and mingle with other singles. Events like speed dating where singles will be seated in a table of six and talked for 5 to 10 mins and then the males rotated to other tables. In this kind of setting, how should I ace in it to attract the lady/ies?
Or, in a short time frame like 5 to 10 mins or lesser, what should I do before, during to attract the lady and importantly, able to follow up with her (date) after that? Note that other males will also be in the same situation trying to impress the ladies.

[Mr. GreenTea]

It's a set up, a lose-lose situation. Accept that as the baseline. Now that you're free of that limitation, you are also free to say anything that pops into your head no matter how outrageous. In fact the more outrageous the better. Unless I miss my guess, you aren't ever going to see any of these women again, and if you do, they already know what to expect, and will relax not only from seeing a familiar face, but from not having to impress you.

Now then, what kind of outrageous things can you say or do?

Batman impressions.

Julia Child drunken chef impressions.

Weather reports (accurate ones are better).

Explanations of how cell phones work.

Ingredient list of Twinkies, and where the chemicals actually come from (well look it up! Do I have to do everything?)

Why it's more fun to barrel-roll a Learjet than a 747.

Stuff like that. And yes, you will seem flaky and off-the-wall. You will also seem funny. If you can manage a certain nonchalance, like you barely give a sht, then you can almost certainly appear cocky and entertaining at the same time. This will have the end effect of having the women flocking to you, and you will create a VCB (virtual cock block) and not have to worry about what any other male is doing (most likely trying to imitate you!).

Two or three of these events will be all you need to overcome your innate reluctance to throw caution to the wind. The overreaching benefit is that after two or three of these situations you will be able to approach any woman in any situation and strike up a conversation. That is the real goal of these artificial trials-by-fire.
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[Rayzorblades]

LOL GT YOU'RE TOO MUCH!

Every. Single. Time. I've ever done one of these speed dating things for kicks, I do the Batman impression. Deep gravelly voice, claiming to be Bruce Wayne or Batman, etc. It's loads of fun and they usually love it. Or I go on about how I'm on fire for Jesus.
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[herzog]

Batman is good. Superman too. However I like to pretend I work for the FBI...helps that I'm 6'2". And I look like pierce from certain angles.

These singles events give me occasional kicks eve though I do go to clubs often. It's wonderful playing with the minds of girls who manifestly are after a date
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[drigh]

Hey man just a lil pointers
commet to your reality, you want her get her, dont just want the image of her you gatta want her for who she is
"By living in reality,
you acknowledge
that you can no
longer hide behind
the promise of the
future as protection
from what you know
you want to do right
now."-Rob judge
Stories sell! have a couple of emotional stories you can tell so you dont run out of things to say, women loove stories and this is how they screan your personality.
Of course dont try and connect right away thats just creepy, build up rapport first.
But always connect with emotions..
and above all always have a sence of humor to balance. To be funny is a passive energy that you can not push(no1 likes a try hard)
But there are some templates to get you going I will just say a couple and you can look them up, these been around for years and they still work.

One variety is exaggeration. For instance, when girls I just met
accuse me of having a girlfriend, I often reply, “I don’t
have a
69g/fs

Managing Reaction
1. How you set the joke up
2. How you react after you tell it


Imitation why?
You took notice of her
1You’re showing her what her behavior looks like to
you
2 You’re fun and not walking on eggshells around her

Accusation

Absurdity: “Yeah right! You are soevil. I’ll bet your head
twists around like the Exorcist!
1. Managing reaction: Keep a silent, deadpan face, causing
her to keep asking, “What? Why do you think that? Tell
me!”
evil. I’ll bet your head
twists around like the Exorcist!





girlfriend…I have fifty-three girlfriends
Roleplaying- i dont enjoy scripted roleplaying,

[maxan]

I attended one of those speed dating things at Singapore. I played at being a bonafide mainland Chinese fellow with Indian descent. Changed my accent too. Very convincingly

They loved it. Considering I was born and raised in LA... and am as blue eyed as the next joe

Women. You can take them with frighteningly serious humor
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