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Ankoku15 · Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 10:38 pm Post subject: Can you reprogram this?

I don't recall how successful the techniques have been at this, but can you reprogram a fear of approach?

The "approach" is basically making the move, initiating escalation towards the opposite sex (or same sex if your homosexual)
It gives off a certain feeling that hints of fear or expectation of rejection. No degree of confidence ever seems to do away with this feeling, the only thing you can do is desensitize yourself to it by experiencing it over and over again

What I wonder is if you can turn that feeling of fear into either an anchor with very positive feelings, or switch the feeling to some other positive emotion instead

Does anyone know of methods for this or are interested in trying to discover such methods?

It is a huge problem for some people and only a minor annoyance to others which is why I feel that everyone would have some interest in finding this out

Hell, if we came up with a reliable way to reprogram this reaction we could make big cash off selling the method as an e-book, lol

Darkblade · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:27 am Post subject:

Ankoku15 · Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:09 am Post subject:

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Darkblade · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 10:05 am Post subject:

And if that doesn't work, just pop a 5mg valium in a stressful situation. Bam. No more anxiety

Timmaniac · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 3:15 pm Post subject:

I say forget 'bout the nlp on this one and use the sedona method and/or EFT
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elroy · Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 1:41 am Post subject:

and if all that fails, hypnotherapy from a reputable member of the pyschiatrical society will help. A few sessions, say ten, should be enough to wipe the slate.

Sometimes self-treatment takes 10x longer that treatment under proferssionals.
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NLPCoaching · Reputation: 0 Joined: 10 Oct 2008 Posts: 2 Not Posted

You could do swish pattern, to reprogram your mind – instead of going to that undesired state (after a certain trigger, like when you are supposed to make the move) to get you into calm and relaxed state. I’ve done this (and other things to boost self confidence) with clients many, many times and it works like a charm.

And if you are ending in real anxious state, than I would suggest you float out into the future, say 15 minutes AFTER the SUCCESSFUL completion of the event, turn around and look toward NOW. It is humanly impossible to feel anxious about something that already happened, and successfully.

Hope this helps.

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Camerlengo · Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 1:09 am Post subject:

doing an attitude shift also helps. Instead of fussing and worrying "How can I impress her/them", think "What can she / they offer ME?"

This little change does wonders!

Darkblade · Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 10:13 am Post subject:

Think also "They'r beneath me"

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WinningMind · Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2008 6:07 am Post subject:

They can't wait to go down on me, too!

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Camerlengo · Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:20 am Post subject:

That's the spirit! And while you're at it, ask yourself "How much they'd like to come back to you to come again and again... over the next year long after you've tired of them."

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