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[AchtungBaby]

Please could you people give me feedback about this frame?

My core self is eternal love, and I am always, welcome, good enough, powerfull, really loved, etc. etc.. (all the chakra affirmations from Sthephane Hemon, for those who are familiar with ideagasms).

The reason that I don't always feel so is that I on some level CHOOSE not to be welcome, good enough, powerfull, really loved, etc. etc... Once I fully realize and acknowledge this it is much more easy to release these negative thoughts and feelings, because if I choose something I can also decide to not choose this.

this is about taking full responsibilty for my choices. I have the idea that this is a good frame to work this, and I just experimented with this by using EFT':
-even though I CHOOSE to feel powerless, I really love myself. And than some rounds of: even though I CHOOSE to feel powerless.

I think this is a very good frame to work this and after tapping on this I felt some very good releases.But I know my restrictions and I have the gift of deluding myself. That's why I really would appreciate some feedback. Please bitchslap me if you think this frame is too simple, or too radical, or unpractical, etc..

[TomSKinney]

The trouble with success is that it involves being different than the majority. Being different isn't safe. The majority feels a need to get rid of anyone who is different in any way, especially good ways. That leads to not taking chances as an adult and not fully developing talents other than chugging beer and belching at the TV. Unfortunately, being a little bit behind the majority makes everyone feel better and is highly encouraged. It is safe to be around. The majority is in decline. Genuine safety now comes from getting ahead and fully developing our abilities, but it goes against everything we were taught. Can you find a way to break away from the false security into the real thing?

[Camerlengo]

[TomSKinney]

It isn't that simple. Learning not to be special and powerful and unique and independent is like learning to move your hand if you bump into something hot. The difference is that in this case the danger isn't real, but that doesn't matter. It was once perceived as a danger and that early training can be hard to reverse because it is designed to function without even being noticed.

[cobain]

just bouncing the ball here. What if you you reframe that frame with

"I choose to be powerless now to reap even more power later. I choose inaction now to build my command later. I choose to wait see then attack when my resources are built. I run now to fight again another day"

At first it appears a cop out, but then if you think about it, its a great way to stop feeling bad about things and instead search other avenues to the same goal without direct confrontation
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I choose CHOICE

[SageMother]

No one consciously chooses what is harmful to them unless it is under duress. If you find yourself choosing to harm yourself, look through your past to see where that pain has been implanted. Usually you are punishing yourself for being ...yourself, based on the expectation of pain for...being yourself.

[aquariancore]

[SageMother]

[PrezBush]

There's something I picked up long ago from one of those Tony Robbins workshops.

When things are starting to go wrong (like Im yelling at my gf, or Im slacking off at work)

I stop and ask myself "What am I allowing or doing right now that is causing me to fall. Do I want it?"

I follow this rule everytime and it always prevents a further escalation of the problem.