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IMMORTUS · Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject: Erotic Dancer

Forgive me for my ignorance... but what does it mean if a stripper gives you her real name and cellphone number but wants to take the relationship slow? It seems like mixed signals.

Mr. GreenTea · Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 12:52 am Post subject:

It means you are one lucky bastard. Cool

Beyond that, try to see things from her point of view. Stripper is, in most men's minds one step away from "whore." She knows this. Also you've seen most, if not all of her charms, so that particular anticipation has been short-circuited. Her wanting to go slow is part of wanting to build that back up, and to try to normalize the budding relationship. OK, she makes her living stripping, and therefore has to engage the interest of other men to generate tips. She probably has the body for it, but with you she'll have to contend with jealousy as well, especially if you come to her place of employ regularly.

Off hand I'd say go slow too, but obviously that is terrible advice. Joseph Matthews has a course about picking up strippers [Here] that has better advice than I'll ever be able to give you. I don't have it myself, so I can't rate it. I'm only recommending it because I know I don't know what advice to give you.

Good luck with this.

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ChuckNorris · Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 1:33 am Post subject:

Hey man.
I am really no expert at dating strippers, nor had any info regarding it.
But I do believe that maybe she is telling that just because she shows her body for a living, that doesn't means she isn't a woman.
And as every woman, she must have some desire for romance, have some fears and isecurities and such... She is not that sex godess every man must think she is...
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johnrice · Posted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 5:20 am Post subject:

While some women adore men who are inaccessible, there are also those who like the playful type. The available types. The serious types.

What am I saying? It's hard to put women in categories. Just as you boys have preferences, the billions of women also do.

Just play the game as yourself and be happy when your intrinsic attributes lures in the right girl.
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