Make Life Magic!

Couples who have been together for an extended period of time often drift apart sexually. There are of course many different reasons why this is so, but there is one in particular that is very common and can be changed for the better, and that reason is that they do not “change things up”. Having one sexual routine that you and your partner use over and over again often causes couples to drift into sexual apathy. Are you experiencing the same issue within your sexual life? Do you and your partner drift into the same sexual position each time, with a boring feeling throughout the entire sexual experience?

Today, there is hardly a couple out there who do not know about most of the alternative positions to the standard “missionary” position. The missionary position is where the women is lying on your back while the man is on top of her. And even though most couples are aware of other more exciting sexual positions, most still play out the same old routine, repeatedly, and then complain that their sex life is getting stale.

One such position that does not get enough attention is the option to have the women sitting on top of her male partner. As we have seen, most men resist this position because they are not able to be “dominant”, and this creates a lot of anxiety in some men. They need to feel a sense of control and this position, while very exciting, takes away that control.

On the same token, many women also resist this position for a similar reason and that is that it makes them feel “too aggressive”. Women who have been surveyed about this questions say that they do not feel proper by taking control over their sexual experience with their male partner. They feel as though the role of controlling the experience should be left as the “man’s role”. Also, some women are insecure about their bodies and are actually embarrassed at the way they look on top to their mates.

On top, a women’s torso (her breasts and belly) are in total view of her partner as compared to being in the missionary position. In the standard missionary position, where the women is lying on her back, the man does not see much of her body. And for a women who is insecure about the way her body looks, especially the way her breasts appear, the “embarrassment” she feels is often enough to keep her from letting go and relaxing her sexual feelings.