Here we go again… Discussing every man’s favorite taboo topic !

Do you believe your girlfriend or wife when she insists she’s enjoyed an orgasm?

How can you know for certain that she’s not faking?

Here are some surprising facts about the elusive female orgasm

70% of women have NEVER had an orgasm with a man.

25% of men will get turned down by their own lovers over half the time. These men have women who think sex is a chore.

Nearly 50% of men have partners that will NEVER ask for sex (would you ask for something that doesn’t give you any pleasure?)

92% of women will FAKE ORGASMS just to “get it over with”. It’s obvious that what most men are doing simply isn’t working.

If you have never given your partner an orgasm, and you don’t know how… HERE’S HELP!
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Female orgasm all men want to give their partner one but not all men achieve it.

If you follow the simple tips below you will achieve not only more pleasure for you but make your partner have a memorable orgasm to.

Let’s look at the female orgasm and the 6 simple tips to make it happen.

1. Relax and Enjoy

Most women view sex as both an emotional and physical experience and are generally not as easily aroused as men.

It is important that they don’t feel like sex objects for male gratification, so take time to be considerate and let your partner know you really care.

Female orgasm comes from the mind as much as the body.

2. Foreplay

To relax your partner you need to have plenty of foreplay. Keep in mind there are many erogenous zones apart from the obvious ones.

To give a couple of examples 80% of women don’t believe that their partners kiss them enough, so do it. Another great erogenous zone is the neck; kissing or nibbling it will drive your partner wild with desire.

The buttocks what women doesn’t feel self conscious about her behind? Show her you appreciate it, stroke it and kiss it and remember – All these gestures add up.

There are many more erogenous zones and we have written on 12 others in previous articles that most men don’t think about so discover them.

3. Oral Sex

Women simply loVe oral sex and can orgasm from it easier sometimes than sexual intercourse, so perfect your art. Oral sex does not just mean a quick lick – it’s a specific technique.

Plenty of oral sex (10 – 15 minutes) will get your partner in the mood and relax her.

4. Go slowly

Many women claim their men come too quickly. If that’s you then you need to slow down or vary the pace.

Sex is not simply about orgasm for you, the build up is pleasurable and it will come eventually, so take your time to give your partner a chance to come to - Don’t leave her frustrated.

5. Correct Breathing

Breathe deeply and slowly this will help you prolong sex and you can also synchronise your breathing with your partners, which will be highly erotic for both of you and give the feeling of becoming “one” in sexual union together.

If you haven’t tried it do so it’s very erotic.

6. Forget complicated positions!

Your main aim is to target the g spot to give a pleasurable female orgasm, there are really 3 positions that work well for this and there mentioned in writings thousands of years ago and they still work.

We have discussed these fully before so check these positions out.

Don’t use such complicated positions all you do is concentrate on holding the position or one you have seen in a porn movie hitting the g spot is much easier than that.

6. Visualization

Lose yourself in the act and use visualization.

Imagine a warm glow, in the pelvic region going out to the extremities of the body.

Doing this concentrates your mind on one thing and one thing only - What you are doing and everything else doesn’t matter.

Visualization is used to achieve many things in life and can be used as a powerful tool in helping you help your partner achieve orgasm.

Try the above tips and you will make your partner feel relaxed, excited, wanted and loved and you will both enjoy more satisfying sex.

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You can ask some people the direct question, “What makes someone credible?” With others, you may have to be somewhat indirect. Ask, “Who do you think is really reliable and can be believed? Why?” You may have to be even more indirect with some people. Ask, “Who do think is a great leader? Why?” The responses you get to these questions indicate each person’s key credibility markers.

Once you know the important markers, assess yourself. How well do you measure up to the standards mentioned by each person? For example, assume your boss indicates credibility comes from an established track record of success. Review your track record. As another example, assume an important coworker feels that follow-through on tasks counts as an important credibility marker. Assess your level of follow-through on assignments. In some cases you will not have to do much to build your credibility because you already stand out in areas important to others. Your boss may already know you have a strong track record. With other people, you may have to reinforce your credibility. For example, you may need to demonstrate task follow-through with the key coworker.
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Conveying Confidence & Magnetism Through Body Movements

When used in sequence, the head, face, and eyes proffer the clearest indication of attitudes toward other people. Because of this fact, the head, face, and eyes are critical to express confidence and project magnetism. For the man or woman with low self-esteem, it will prove advantageous to learn to cast yourself in a more self-assured manner, which in turns makes you feel more confident about yourself.

Tilting your head, face, and eyes in the direction of another person makes you appear more magnetic. As everyone knows, messages accompanied by eye contact are more favorably read by receivers than are messages sent lacking eye contact. Less well known is the fact that eye contact alone may improve the sending of messages but it is not necessarily a major contributor to magnetism. Warm, amiable eye contact is unbeatable for magnetism. (more…)

Breaking The Chains Of Unconscious External Programming

Some of our programming is apparent. It sticks out, grabs our attention and demands our reaction. However much of our programming is not nearly so obvious. Much of it has been quite more understated. Every day each of us welcomes an endless stream of imperatives, directives, controls, mandates, and expectations from others. All of this perpetually affects our levels of confidence and self-esteem.

The environment around us nudges, demands, or persuades. Even as adults we are met with a cascade of influences, most of which we are not even conscious of. We are like sea liners with countless captains, all striving to direct us on their own courses, for their own purposes, unmindful that they are leading our ships astray. For as long as you and I permit others to program us in a way that fits their agenda, we are indubitably out of control. (more…)

Taking Stock Of Your Attitudes (Some Just Plain Suck!)

Review at your attitudes. Assess them, scrutinize them. Take stock of your beliefs about yourself, survey a mental inventory of your attitudes (good and bad) and choose for yourself which of those work for you and which hold you back . The ones dragging you down; throw out. Trash them. Keep the ones you like.

Modify the ones you want to change. Take full charge of your attitudes. Jump back in control. The least that could happen is that you would get a little more of your truel self back again. Realize the sparkling gems that are part of your own mind. Seek out and harvest the rich reserve of the “attitudes” within you which have been waiting to step out and live once more.

Begin talking to yourself the right way. Minute changes in attitudes can make massive changes in life. Your attitudes shape all of the important things around you. They influence how you feel about yourself. They impinge on your work, your friends, and your loved ones. When your attitudes improve, so does life. I f you would like to make a change or two, fixing an attitude and making life a little better isn’t a bad place to start.

Surf for Better Programming

Fact: our self esteem is the result of what we are programmed to think. Our conditioning, from the day we were born, has fashioned, reinforced, and nearly undyingly cemented most of what we believe about ourselves and what we hold about most of what goes on around us. Whether the programming was right or wrong, true or false; the result of it is what we have faith in. It all begins with our programming!

It is our programming that consolidates our beliefs, and the chain reaction commences. In rational progression, what we believe ascertains our attitudes, affects our feelings, directs our actuations, and establishes our success or failure:

1. Programming gives rise to beliefs.
2. Beliefs spur attitudes.
3. Attitudes solidify feelings.
4. Feelings kickstart actions.
5. Actions launch results.

There you have it. That’s how the brain works. If you want to supervise yourself in a better way, and optimize your results, you can do so whenever you choose. Start with the first step. Overhaul your programming.