Know what holds most people from true success? It’s coz they live a life of Somedays….

Do these musings sound familiar?

“Someday, I’ll be rich…”
“Someday, I’ll find the right one…”
“Someday, I’ll start that business…”

Geez! If you think like that, Someday will never happen. You’ll push ‘it’ so far into the future that you’ll be dead before anything happens.

There’s just one way out. Next time you say “Someday”, replace it with “TODAY. ”

Then magic will really begin.

(Ever thought of ruling the world?)

You are a perfect creature, capable of being, doing and achieving anything that you can imagine. You are the creator of your perfect reality and the foundation of this creative paradise is the Law of Attraction. There are no obstructions nor limitations as to what you are capable of, so why is it we often short-circuit ourselves and our full potential?

As we observe the universe around us, you may behold lots of fear, anxiety and helplessness. Whether your personal struggle is monetary, emotional, physical or social, there are a lot of folks struggling with something or the other. If you aren’t, then you’ve ascended humanity! (more…)

Know what prosperity is? Prosperity is a dream with a deadline.

That’s right. When you dream and do nothing about it- it reamains a dream. But give a deadline to achieve it. Magic begins.

Dreams and deadlines create actionable objectives. Work on them and you claim a reward: prosperity. I don’t mean just monetary affluence. It can be social, mental or spiritual prosperity.

Start dreaming more. And give them deadlines. You’ll have a wonderful life!

Let’s face it: people often judge you by appearance. It’s not ideal of course. We prefer to be evaluated on basis of what’s inside: intellect, wit, accomplishments, charisma. The problem is, before folks can see that, they gravitate to you the basis of your external appearance.

Dressing well, therefore, and projecting a polished image is necessary.

Let two girls bat for a job. Assume both possess the same charm, wit and exemplary resume. Who’d get the job? Obviously the sassier-dressed. It’s all got to do with Cialdini’s Principle of Likability: we find ourselve’s drawn to attractive people projecting a delightful package.

Fortunately, image projection need not be expensive, what with numerous online retailers of fashionable apparel. Like ShopBop. I recently stumbled across this community of fashionistas that offer more than products: they also proffer fashion guides that help you to look your best 24/7.

Shopbob’s a good place to begin your image projection overhaul. Check it out!

I’ve been surfing the web for new material I could use in my upcoming dating workshops and noticed something: many gurus espouse highly structured forms of hypnosis to create attraction. The preferred method is via ‘neurolinguistic seduction’, a system that requires the use of trance words, embedded commands and tonal patterns. Is it effective? You bet! The downside is that only advanced conversationalists can use these techniques. Let a newbie try it out and he’ll get laughed out of the bar. And slapped.

I did come across another site that uses more natural and spontaneous forms of attraction to get a girlfriend. The SeductionBible teaches simpler forms of rapport building through fluff talk, criteria elicitation- and yes getting a woman to laugh! Now these are approaches that I believe absolute beginners can use to score while enjoying a nightlife.

Check out the SeductionBible. You’ll be delighted

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My circle of friends includes a bunch of very shy guys. They’re good looking, but they falter when face to face with a woman. Somehow, all the wrong words come out- or none at all!

I’ve seen them crash and burn numerous times at bars, groceries and parks. They’d attempt a humorous opener and end up looking like fools. Some ended up slapped. They try again- with the same result.

How many among YOU are daunted by physical encounters? Oh. Do I see a dozen hands? Before you ultimately give up on romance, I suggest online dating. With the computer as a buffer and distance as a shield, you’d feel safe and eliminate the cold sweats normally associated with real time physical interaction. The other benefit is that you can compose your words more easily as you chat over YM or email. (more…)

There is one critical set of strategies required to speed you on your way to the achievement of your objectives and goals and hence the acquisition of your dreams: your Daily Activities Lists. The activities list is your prioritized itinerary. Line by line it illustrates what you intend to achieve during the current day and up to the end of the month.

Consider that there is no limit to the laundry list of activities which you can choose to delegate your time. Therefore, there will rarely be a day during your life when you feel “tied up.” Think back. Can you ever recall a day when you felt that you had accomplished all the things you needed to do and would like to have done? I definitely cannot remember one. However, what’s key is not that everything gets done during a chosen day, but that the activities that are most vital to the achievement of your dreams have been concluded on a schedule set by you. To feel good about how you utilize time does not require being hectic every moment, or regularly playing “catch-up.” Positive feelings and the mental rewards coupled with real accomplishments are fashioned through effectiveness, since only effectiveness creates results. (more…)

I loved that movie Evan Almighty- especially when God (Morgan Freeman) says

“When you ask God for courage, do you think I zap you with courage? No I put you in a situation that calls for courage. When you ask God for great relationships, do you think I zap you with warm fuzzy feelings? No. I throw you in a situation that lets you exercise camaraderie.”

Beautiful isn’t it! He encapsulated in a single paragraph the secret behind The Secret. The secret behind manifestation.

You see, I’ve long understood that all those self-help programs, those manifestation methods, those attraction techniques do not ‘magically’ materialize your desire out of thin air. Rather, when you set your mind to something, you unconsciously set in motion a series of situations that inspire action.

Taking actions spells the difference between getting what you want. Or being frustrated.

Now here’s the real key to really adding magic to all your efforts. Take action today. Yep. Right Now.

Being in a perpetual ‘SomeDay’ mode will create just that… a life of wistful thinking.

How to you spend your free time?

Let me see. If you’re one of the millions of corporate blokes out there, you laze in front of TV, get drunk, read some old Men’s magz or just doze off. And while you’re at it, your brain shrinks while your belly bloats.

Aha! Is that a blush on your cheek? I thought so.

Leisure time that’s simply passive downtime is a monumental waste of time. It’s time that could have been spent more productively and yet enjoyably.

Consider the following activities that can get you a major rush. (more…)