Make Life Magic!

I’ve been surfing the web for new material I could use in my upcoming dating workshops and noticed something: many gurus espouse highly structured forms of hypnosis to create attraction. The preferred method is via ‘neurolinguistic seduction’, a system that requires the use of trance words, embedded commands and tonal patterns. Is it effective? You [...]

Discover the Magic of Positive Focusing There is a fallacy that to hit our goal we ought to “think positive” all the time. No, we need not “think positive” 24/7. We don’t even have to imagine positively all the time. To triumph – to fulfill our personal quests – all we have to do is [...]

It is not unusual to be afraid of learning more about your relationship and your partner. “What if I discover we are incompatible?” “What if I find out she doesn’t love me?” “What if I find out we are actually separate individuals with separate needs and desires?” Many men and women [...]

Couples who have been together for an extended period of time often drift apart sexually. There are of course many different reasons why this is so, but there is one in particular that is very common and can be changed for the better, and that reason is that they do not “change things up”. [...]

Among couples that come in to counseling with relationship problems, the most common complaint about intimacy is: “We’re just too busy for sex.” This is especially true when the husband and wife are both working full time jobs. Add to that schedule a family of children to take care of, and it is [...]

In the real world, most men do not do housework. While studies from the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan confirm that this generation of couples do half the amount of housework their parents did, most of those chores are still shouldered by women. Is there a way to prevent [...]

Despite the fact that there are many couples who have been married for ten, twenty, or even thirty or more years, some never get around to developing a tolerance for each other’s differences. They have made the mistake of thinking that, just because two people fall in love and get married, each of them [...]

If you and your loving partner are having difficulties within the relationship then there is no doubt that fighting and arguing has occurred, and probably on more than several occasions. Sometimes a relationship gets to the point of constant arguing with both members but if your goal is to make things better, then you [...]

Getting involved in a relationship and remaining true to yourself, your beliefs, and your individuality is very important. But how come few people actually have “themselves” ready before jumping into every relationship bandwagon that comes along? To help you better understand what it takes before getting involved with someone, we have five ways [...]

Sexual desire in every relationship fluctuates between both partners.  Some stages are of course predictable.  For example, the following times are when sexual moods and patterns of lovemaking may shift: when you first marry, after your child is born, when the kids leave home, or when there is career pressure.  Knowing this, and being confident enough [...]