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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 02:39:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Titanium Qi Power II &#8211; Ultimate System GT2 - Take the power of the original Titanium Qi Energizer and multiply it by FIVE. Such is the power you will enjoy with the Titanium Qi Power System II IMAGINE Sheer Determination&#8230; Unstoppable Dominance &#8230; Killer Endurance&#8230; Preternatural Resistance &#8230; Awesome Attraction &#8230; And A God-Like sense [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;" align="center"><strong><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: #000080; font-size: large;">Titanium Qi  			Power II</span></strong></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;" align="center"><strong><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: #000080; font-size: x-small;"> &#8211;  			Ultimate System GT2 -</span></strong></p>
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<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Take the power of the original Titanium Qi Energizer  			and multiply it by FIVE. Such is the power you will enjoy with the  			Titanium Qi Power System II</span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span style="font-size: x-small;">IMAGINE <span style="color: #0000ff;">Sheer Determination</span>&#8230;  			<span style="color: #0000ff;">Unstoppable Dominance</span> &#8230;  			<span style="color: #0000ff;"> Killer Endurance</span>&#8230; <span style="color: #0000ff;">Preternatural  			Resistance</span> &#8230; <span style="color: #ff0000;">Awesome Attraction</span> &#8230; And A <span style="color: #008000;">God-Like sense of Peace</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><strong>The Power of Titanium Enhanced with Chi Technology</strong>.  Now  Upgraded.</span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="center"><strong><span style="font-size: x-small;">Components</span></strong></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span style="font-size: x-small;">1) <strong>GT2 Active Tachyon Generator</strong> linked to the  Titan  pendant That means four tiny cores in one main core powered by audio.</p>
<p>2) <strong>A Phiten X100 flagship pendant</strong>. By itself the pendant costs  US$240 at  PhitenUSA.com, but we secured a deal with their distributors to get them  in  bulk. You won&#8217;t be bleeding money for the complete package.</p>
<p>3) <strong>A PowerBalance bracelet</strong>. Sold at Powerbalance.com, the  powerbalance  (US$30) balances energy fields and smoothens out harsh life force to  provide a  more stabilized aura. Beta testers have reported that it was impossible  to sleep  using the X100 Pendant and Tachyon Generator due to piercing energy.  With the  powerbalance bracelet (and a powerbalance chip inside the tachyon  generator),  excess energy is siphoned out and distributed evenly throughout the  body. You  won&#8217;t feel the &#8220;caffein overload&#8221; sensation of wearing the Pendant.  Instead,  you&#8217;ll experience a sensation of balanced invincibility. And you can  sleep. </span></p>
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<p><strong>Benefits: </strong></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><strong>Rarely Get Tired.</strong> The system wards off the  damaging  effects of EMF, pollution and other stressors in the environment by  converting  stagnant chi into vibrant chi. You&#8217;ll be able to work longer hours and  feel like  you just stepped out of the shower.</p>
<p><strong>Dominate the Competition.</strong> Whether it&#8217;s at the boardroom, the  bedroom or  the auditorium, you&#8217;ll be abuzz with energy that others will feel- and  love to  bask in. Remember a time you felt like the center of attention? You&#8217;ll  live that  again. Day after day!</p>
<p><strong>Pump Like A SexGod.</strong> I kid you not. Wear one of these  and you&#8217;ll  pump away like a jackrabbit. Get your tool on overdrive and do your  partner like  a pornstar.</p>
<p><strong>Manifest Like a Pro</strong>. Chi energy amplifies thoughts and  brainwaves. Simply  affirm positive thoughts in your head while carrying your Xtremebooster  and your  thoughts become self-fulfilling prophecies. You&#8217;ll stumble across free  parking,  run into delightful strangers and maybe even discover lost valuables. It  all  depends on what you want!</p>
<p><strong>Regenerate Like a Lizard.</strong> Well, maybe that&#8217;s an exaggeration but  the  system explosively enhances your capability to recover faster. Using  tools like  the Vesica Virtual Cone Pendulum , the system had been tweaked to  radiate waves  of life enriching energies that you will surely feel in a day! Picture  yourself  striding into the gym and pumping iron like a madman&#8230; and getting  second wind  in seconds!</p>
<p>Stocks will be available next Sunday, May 9. Pre-launch price for the  first 10  units will be $199 </span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Ever wondered what it felt like to be a rockstar?</span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;"><strong>Stop wondering</strong>.  You can  now experience the sensations of invincibility and unrelenting drive  these  celebrities enjoy. Without the drugs.</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;">The <strong>Titanium  Qi Energizer,  GT2-edition</strong> consists of the powerful Phiten X100 titanium  impregnated necklace, a  GT2 tachyon generator and a Powerbalance bracelet.</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;">The custom link  between  the necklace and the tachyon generator that you absorb not just the  healthy  emanations of the titanium necklace, but also the powerful penetrating  frequencies of chi. </span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;">The Titanium Qi  Energizer  is more powerful than the Qlink. Faster acting than any anti stress  pendant. Bar  none.</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">&#8220;&#8230;don&#8217;t feel any pain  							or weakness during my 2K runs, unlike before.&#8221; -J.  							Wenlly</span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">&#8220;&#8230; very crazy! First  							time in my life I got multiple orgasms. Can&#8217;t figure  							out the connection&#8221; &#8211; R. Wakefield</span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">&#8220;&#8230;as you know I suffer  							from diabetis. Feel weak most of the time. Wearing  							this got me a feeling sprightly. Upbeat!&#8221; &#8211; N.  							Torralba</span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">&#8220;&#8230;Feel so alive with  							it. My girlfriend says I have a different aura.  							Bright. She asked me if I bought one of those  							pheromone colognes&#8230;&#8221; P. Foster</span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">&#8220;&#8230; my officemates are  							so toxic. I tend to snap back. It&#8217;s really hell. But  							this thing makes it seem like they&#8217;re not even  							there&#8221; E. Trent</span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="center"><span> <span style="letter-spacing: normal;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> <span style="font-size: 12px;"><strong> <a href="../../phpbb/viewtopic.php?t=5146"> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Live Testimonials  on the Prototype</span></a></strong></span></span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;">And to take the  energy  level beyond your imagination, you can rapidly boost the field effect by   plugging in the quadcore tachyon generator into audio. A few seconds  charging time results in the infusion of pure chi that lasts several  hours.  You&#8217;ll be protected against negative energies while <span style="text-decoration: underline;">simultaneously  radiating  vibes so bright, people will feel the sun just entered the room!</span></span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;"><strong>Gloat in the  gym.  Impress your bedmate. Shine like a star. And kick some serious ass. </strong></span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;">It&#8217;s the last  energy  pendant you&#8217;ll ever reach for.</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="left"><span> <span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: normal;">Instant results  on day  one. <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Or your money back.</strong></span></span></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px;" align="center"><span><span style="letter-spacing: normal;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> <span style="font-size: 12px;"><strong> <a href="../../phpbb/viewtopic.php?t=5146"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Testimonials   on the Prototype</span></a></strong></span></span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">Stylish Phiten X100 titanium treated  							necklace made by Phiten Corp. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Normally $240 at  							PhitenUSA.com</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">A specially made  							tachyon generator that&#8217;s radionically linked with the  							Phiten. Integrates quantum scalar core technology. 							<span style="text-decoration: underline;">Normally $199 at Xtrememind.com</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 10px;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">A Powerbalance bracelet  							to siphon excess energy. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Notmally $39 at  							Powerbalance.com!</span></span></p>
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		<title>How To Improve Your Life Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 09:29:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s simple. Stop reacting. Take the initiative. Those who wait and see tend to get left behind by life. In contrast, first movers reap the rewards of the early bird]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s simple. Stop reacting. Take the initiative. Those who wait and see tend to get left behind by life. In contrast, first movers reap the rewards of the early bird</p>
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		<title>How To Attract Even More Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Apr 2008 04:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Infinite Abundance pendant brought in private reviews that I&#8217;ve never expected. People emailed comments like- From shocking feedback on ventures: &#8220;Last night, an friend dropped a partnership proposal on my lap. It was a high yield idea I&#8217;d been playing with but I was to afraid to ask because we had bad blood years [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Infinite Abundance pendant brought in private reviews that I&#8217;ve never expected. People emailed<a href="http://www.xtrememind.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/moneybill.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-331" title="moneybill" src="http://www.xtrememind.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/moneybill-150x150.jpg" align="right" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a> comments like-</p>
<p>From shocking feedback on ventures:</p>
<p>&#8220;Last night, an friend dropped a partnership proposal on my lap. It was a high yield idea I&#8217;d been playing with but I was to afraid to ask because we had bad blood years ago.&#8221;</p>
<p>to mundane scenarios:</p>
<p>&#8220;I got a steak order instead of the chicken I requested&#8230; and so the chef just made it a free upgrade instead of changing it&#8221;</p>
<p>Talk about making my day! It brought my clients abundance (which is  good), and that also brought us abundance (which is also good). Then someone brought up a fantastic idea!</p>
<p>You see, one owner of the Abundance pendant happens to be a 6&#8242; tall Texan who used to wrestle. Wearing the abundance pendant was simply impossible for his size- and his style. He kept the emblem in his pocket and reaped quite a few benefits nonetheless.</p>
<p>Still, he wants an external talisman he can wear. He suggested that for guys of his build, why not radionically program an emblem that&#8217;s inherently linked to abundance. <strong>The Rolex Watch.</strong></p>
<p>It made instant sense! The Rolex is a timeless symbol of affluence, a virtual archetype of people &#8216;having<a href="http://www.xtrememind.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/rlx-ym-ss1-02-sma.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-330" title="rlx-ym-ss1-02-sma" src="http://www.xtrememind.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/rlx-ym-ss1-02-sma.jpg" align="right" alt="" width="120" height="90" /></a> made it&#8217; We&#8217;ve decided,  therefore, to make special edition <a href="http://www.xtrememind.com/evolution-radionics.htm">Evolutions</a> linked to high quality replicas of Rolex watches similar to those $400 models made here www.puretimewatch.com/index.php?productID=8.</p>
<p>To make it work, the modded Evolution will have a special radionic module appended to the top of its crown with embedded programming for affluence and wealth. This programming will then be transmitted constantly to the watch linked to it. Wear the watch and feel the affluence- both on the physical and metaphysical plane.</p>
<p>Benefits:</p>
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<li>The watch is quad A quality- it will be hard to call you out wearing a fake</li>
<li>The watch will receive chi energy- boosting your endurance and aura</li>
<li>The watch will have programming for prosperity, thereby increasing the probabilities of making correct financial decisions, as well as drawing the right people to you.</li>
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<p>This modded Evolution is by special order and will cost $995. It will include the Evolution, the high quality rolex replica (please specify the model you want, otherwise we ship a Yachtmaster or Submariner) and necessary CDs and power booster.</p>
<p><strong>Buy now and explode your wealth!</strong></p>
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		<title>Feeling Dandy Today?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 13:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Feelings are darned important. The problem is, we tend to shuffle them under a carpet because we are afraid of being judged. That&#8217;s something I wondered about. Since when does society have the right to say you can feel this way or that? You are the absolute master of your emotions. You choose when to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Feelings are darned important. The problem is, we tend to shuffle them under a carpet because we are afraid of being judged. That&#8217;s something I wondered about. Since when does society have the right to say you can feel this way or that? You are the absolute master of your emotions. You choose when to laugh or cry. Or jump the bridge!</p>
<p>But this isn&#8217;t the case. We hide our emotions from the world so well, that we end up hiding our sentiments even from ourselves. Often, I&#8217;d talk with a friend or colleague and ask them how they felt. I&#8217;d get an honest answer saying, &#8220;Uhmm&#8230; I don&#8217;t really know.&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow. People who are out of touch with their true feelings often lagged in self-esteem. I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve notice that. Are you one of them?</p>
<p>I urge you to check your feelings throughout the day. Every hour, take a breather. Ask yourself &#8220;How am I feeling right now&#8221;. Then discern the reason why.  Often we find that there&#8217;s no basis for feeling depressed or anxious. In this case- ask yourself &#8220;What&#8217;s the worst that can happen for xxxxx&#8221;. You&#8217;ll quickly realize it&#8217;s easy to leap into a blazingly constructive frame of mind with this technique.</p>
<p>Take inventory of your feelings. Be true as to the cause. Then make the conscious effort to choose a better frame of mind if it isn&#8217;t serving you well.</p>
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		<title>Yell Your Head Off</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Mar 2008 11:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a lousy day. Everyone woke up late. You were stuck at gridlock for two hours. Coffee spilt on your Armani suit at the drive thru. Then, at office, the Board shows up and you&#8217;re unprepared. Fortunately your secretary calls that she&#8217;ll be absent, so you plot ahead how to take over her responsibilities. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been a lousy day. Everyone woke up late. You were stuck at gridlock for two hours. Coffee spilt on your Armani suit at the drive thru. Then, at office, the Board shows up and you&#8217;re unprepared. Fortunately your secretary calls that she&#8217;ll be absent, so you plot ahead how to take over her responsibilities. At 4pm, your 8pm date cancels.</p>
<p><strong>You&#8217;re ready to scream.</strong></p>
<p>Whenever a particular sequence of unfortunate events  conspire to bring you down, how do you cope? I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve gone through hell like this and you&#8217;ve been farthest from sentient. Were you rational? Maybe you hit suicidal. Stress eventually leads to volcanic eruption and the poor fella you finally yell at had nothing to do with your day&#8217;s misfortunes.</p>
<p>Before you reach the point of no return, try the following tactic to unwind in a second:</p>
<ul>
<li>Seek out a quiet, private spot.</li>
<li>Lock the door.</li>
<li>Stretch out your mouth really wide and flex your entire body.</li>
<li>Throw your fists to the heaven and scream- to your heart&#8217;s content.</li>
<li>Relax.</li>
<li>Rinse and Repeat.</li>
</ul>
<p>Ah&#8230;. didn&#8217;t that feel better? Now you&#8217;re in control once again.</p>
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		<title>Are You Making These 7 Deadly Mistakes With Women?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2008 04:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Oliver</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are You Making These 7 Deadly Mistakes With Women Without Even Knowing It? Mistake # 1: Being Like Every Other Guy Once upon a time, there was a man who saw a very attractive woman. He was very nice and polite around her. When he mustered up the courage to actually talk to her, he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 align="center">Are You Making These 7 Deadly Mistakes With Women Without Even Knowing It?</h2>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake # 1: Being Like Every Other Guy</strong></h3>
<p align="left">Once upon a time, there was a man who saw a very attractive woman.<br />
He was very nice and polite around her.</p>
<p>When he mustered up the courage to actually talk to her, he said one of the following lines:</p>
<p>“Hi, How was your day”<br />
“Do you come here often?”<br />
“You look familiar. Have we met before?</p>
<p>Then he immediately talked about the “Weather” and “Her Job”. When it was time to get her phone number, he said “Can, I take you out to dinner sometime?”</p>
<p>He waited 3 days before he called her up.</p>
<p>A week later, he brought her flowers, took her out to an expensive dinner, and attempted to kiss her while walking her to her door.</p>
<p>The End.</p>
<p>Okay, I’ve got some good news and some bad news.</p>
<p>BAD NEWS: If you can identify with the man in the story or if you think it’s the right thing to do, then you’re making a very DEADLY MISTAKE with women and you don’t even know it.</p>
<p>GOOD NEWS: Now you know about it.</p>
<p>If you see an attractive woman you’d like to meet, then chances are she’s been out on dates before.</p>
<p>There’s also a big chance that EVERY OTHER GUY fits the description above. As a matter of fact, it happens so often that women get tired of the same routine over and over again.</p>
<p>Why would you want to be like every other guy?</p>
<p>In this time and age, women dream of a man that is UNIQUE and ORIGINAL.</p>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake #2: Following The &#8220;Friend&#8217;s First&#8221; Method</strong></h3>
<p>Have you ever tried to be “Friends” with a woman hoping that one day she’ll fall for you?</p>
<p>Maybe you were always there to TALK with her when she had problems. Maybe you did really nice things for her. Maybe you even tried to tell her that “You Liked Her”… Then she ends up telling you “Let’s be friends”.</p>
<p>She had a pretty good reason too. She said “I don’t want to ruin our friendship; you mean so much to me”. Next thing you know, she’s dating a guy that treats her like shit.</p>
<p>So why does she fall for him instead of you?</p>
<p>He’s doing something that you’re not doing.</p>
<p>He’s making her feel a powerful SEXUAL ATTRACTION towards him…</p>
<p>It’s the same SEXUAL ATTRACTION that you automatically feel whenever you see an attractive woman. You don&#8217;t think about it. You don&#8217;t control it, and you don&#8217;t plan it.</p>
<p>It just happens.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a secret. You can trigger that same SEXUAL ATTRACTION within a woman. In fact, you have to learn how to trigger this kind of a attraction within women or you&#8217;ll never date the kind of women you&#8217;ve always wanted.</p>
<p>Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to be rich or handsome at all to do it.</p>
<p>It’s much simpler than that. You just need specific techniques that compel women to feel a strong sexual attraction in your presence.</p>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake #3: Asking For “Permission” Before Doing Anything</strong></h3>
<p>Most men feel the need to ask a woman’s permission before they do anything.</p>
<p>They ask her if it’s ok to “Kiss Her”, “Take Her Out”, and sometimes even “Pick A Movie”.</p>
<p>This slowly kills any attraction that a woman might have for you. Women are attracted to men that know how to LEAD the interaction.</p>
<p>Instead of asking her permission all the time and starting your sentences with “Can we go to” or “Would you like some?” try being more assertive.</p>
<p>Instead of saying: “Do you want to watch a movie?” say “Let’s go watch a movie”.</p>
<p>This subtle change of words makes a big difference in the way you come across to women. They will view you as more confident.</p>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake #4: Only Going To Bars And Clubs To Meet Women</strong></h3>
<p>Do you think you&#8217;ll find love while perched on a barstool? Think again.</p>
<p>According to the Encyclopedia of Exes:</p>
<p>&#8220;Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men say they&#8217;ve found a relationship at a bar or club—blame it on the beer goggles. So if you&#8217;re lonely and looking, you&#8217;re better off hitting on cuties at Starbucks.&#8221;</p>
<p>This means that&#8230;</p>
<p>91% of women prefer to meet men outside of bars and clubs.</p>
<p>That’s majority of the female population! Most of the guys out there are looking for women at the wrong places!</p>
<p>What shocked me the most was that nobody was aware of it.</p>
<p>Nobody was taking advantage of it.</p>
<p>Nobody knew how to do it.</p>
<p>They didn’t know how to meet women in normal everyday locations like coffee shops, bookstores, malls, college campuses, parks, beaches, and anywhere under the sun!</p>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake #5: Creeping Women Out Instantly</strong></h3>
<p>The sad truth is that most men that try to attract women end up creeping them out beyond belief… and the worst part is that they’re probably not even aware of it!</p>
<p>Here are the things they do:</p>
<ul>
<li>Smiling to much at a woman they want combined with staring at them for long periods of time in hopes that it will result to something. They do it over and over again until women get really uncomfortable and “creeped” out.</li>
<li>Trying to get as close to her as you possibly can and following her around, crossing your fingers, and hoping that you just naturally “hit it off” with her.</li>
<li>Trying to find out everything about her right away and asking her all sorts of “boring” questions one after the other. This is what every other guy tries to do and trust me, that’s the last thing you want to do.</li>
</ul>
<p>Have YOU ever been guilty of one of these things?</p>
<p>If you have then… STOP right now.</p>
<p>These are the three most common complaints women have about men they classify as CREEPY.</p>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake # 6:</strong><strong> Setting Yourself Up For Failure Right From The Start</strong></h3>
<p>Did you know that there are things that most men do all the time to guarantee that they fail even before they begin?</p>
<p>When most men see a woman they want, they start thinking of the worst possible scenario right away. For some reason this is the first thing that comes up in our minds before we approach women.</p>
<p>In the past, I remember having these crazy thoughts going in my mind:</p>
<p>“What if she rejects me and everybody around her hears it? What will they think of me? What if they laugh at me?”<br />
“What if she has a boyfriend and she tells me to f*** off?”</p>
<p>Looking back, these thoughts have deliberately destroyed my chances with getting dates with beautiful women. They absolutely did.</p>
<p>Another “Instant Failure” move that’s common is that most men tend to Wait too long before they approach women. Well here’s what I learned…</p>
<p>That big ball of anxiety you feel when you see a woman you want to approach gets magnified and intensified the longer you wait!</p>
<p>It comes to a point that it immobilizes you… You end up freezing up and not doing anything.</p>
<p>By the way, here’s simple ways you can IMMEDIATELY use to approach women without fear and anxiety:</p>
<p>Be Prepared- Most guys fail with women because they don’t know what to do, how to do it, and when to do it. So in order to be part of the top 1% of men that are successful with women, you must be prepared even before you approach women. Use a proven way of starting conversations with women. Know exactly what you will do when something unexpected comes up and throws you off. This advice alone will triple your dating results.</p>
<h3 align="center"><strong>Mistake # 7: Following Dating Advice That Doesn&#8217;t Work</strong></h3>
<p>I&#8217;m going to make a really bold statement here, and I&#8217;ll back it up in a minute.</p>
<p>MOST DATING ADVICE OUT THERE JUST DON&#8217;T WORK&#8230;</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why: Because I&#8217;ve tried them and nothing seemed to be working no matter how hard I tried,</p>
<p>I followed all the basics. I learned from every dating program available to mankind. I learned how to be interesting to women, how to start conversations easily, where to take them on dates, and as ridiculous as it sounds, I even learned how to guess their zodiac signs.</p>
<p>Turns out that most of the promises were just pure hype, pure bull&#8230; Because most of the dating advice out there just didn&#8217;t work in real world situations.</p>
<p>It sounded right and the theory made perfect sense&#8230; UNTIL I tried them out in the real world only to fall flat on my face.</p>
<p>After figuring this out, I knew I had to take matters into my own hands.</p>
<p>Since then I went on a mission. To find the truth, try everything out, and increase my chances with the women I desired.</p>
<p>I spent most of my time and money on getting this part of my life handled. I spent well over 3 years carefully documenting and writing about my experiences. Most of my time was spent researching, coming up with techniques, and putting those techniques to the test.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve tried all types of approaches to meeting women enough to learn what works and what doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>I Ended Up Interacting With Literally Thousands Of Women</p>
<p>Today, I can meet any woman I desire, get her attracted to me in less than 30 seconds flat, usually having her beg for my number, and all the good stuff that almost sounds too good to be true.</p>
<p>If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on <a href="http://www.on2url.com/app/adtrack.asp?MerchantID=98208&amp;AdID=363132">How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.</a></p>
<p>Talk To You Soon,</p>
<p>Your Friend,<br />
Oliver Turner</p>
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		<title>You Said No To Sex?? You Nuts?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 07:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Among couples that come in to counseling with relationship problems, the most common complaint about intimacy is: “We&#8217;re just too busy for sex.” This is especially true when the husband and wife are both working full time jobs. Add to that schedule a family of children to take care of, and it is quite understandable [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Among couples that come in to counseling with relationship problems, the most common complaint about intimacy is: “We&#8217;re just too busy for sex.”  This is especially true when the husband and wife are both working full time jobs.  Add to that schedule a family of children to take care of, and it is quite understandable that their lives are very busy to include regular intimacy.  But is a busy schedule the real reasons why these couples are lacking intimacy?</p>
<p>In dealing with couples for years now, I have talked with hundreds of men and women who will spend everyday planning their dinner or their wardrobe, get in their television shows each night, get to the gym three times per week, etc. but thinking nothing of putting a priority on planning and engaging intimacy with their partners.  In terms of priorities, sex seems to usually come last, far behind all of the above typical schedule.  These couples have literally schedule intimacy right out of their lives.  Are you one of them?</p>
<p>For most of us, being “too busy” in our lives is simply another subtle way we avoid sex, another way we turn ourselves off without honestly confronting what it is we are doing.  We say, “Can&#8217;t you see all of the things that I have to do everyday?  I have PTA meetings, work, grocery shopping, house cleaning, and errands to run.”  By missing the time for intimacy, we never have to face the anxieties or the resentments which are actually the real reasons why we haven&#8217;t made love for weeks or even months on end.</p>
<p>There was one middle-aged women who was literally in tears at her counseling session when she said to me, “Each night we I go to bed and see my husband&#8217;s back lying there next to me, all that I can think about is: It&#8217;s been over 8 weeks since we made love!”  But as our conversation went much further, she admitted that she went to yoga classes up to four times per week and jogged for an hour at an additional three days per week, all the while her husband was at home, alone.  Soon enough she was admitting to me (and to herself) that she was ashamed of weight that she had put on her body and that she wasn&#8217;t going to feel sexual until her body was in the shape that she wanted it to be.</p>
<p>As you can see, the problem was not totally the fault of her husband.  In fact, she was creating her own reality of not making love, because she was insecure about herself.  And while this wasn&#8217;t easy for her to admit the whole time, she was able to feel safe by blaming her husband for the lack of intimacy.  The sooner that we truly become honest with ourselves and work outward from the inside, the sooner that our intimacy problems can addressed.</p>
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		<title>The Meaning of Life. Really.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 02:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since Day ONE of the creation, blokes like you and I searched for that elusive reason to life. &#8220;Why are we here?&#8221; &#8220;What is our purpose?&#8221; &#8220;Does the world follow some rhyme or reason?&#8221; And check out the great books and authors that elaborated on the idea: Summa Theologica, The Egyptian Book of the Dead, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since Day ONE of the creation, blokes like you and I searched for that elusive reason to life.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Why are we here?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;What is our purpose?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Does the world follow some rhyme or reason?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>And check out the great books and authors that elaborated on the idea: Summa Theologica, The Egyptian Book of the Dead, The &#8216;Quoran, The Bible, Jean Paul Sarte, Socrates, Paulo Cohello, Donald Trump. </p>
<p>Okay, I arbitarily inserted up that last name.</p>
<p>But seriously. You never realized you were in the company of such eminence! Give yourself a pat on the back, Mr. Philosopher.</p>
<p>Stop, and consider how, after all that rheotoric, prose, and giddy exhortation,  few of these dissertations truly arrived at some enlightening, jaw dropping <strong>Meaning of Life</strong> that literally gave you the golden answer to your personal existence. (people still keep searching!)</p>
<p>And Life, well&#8230; life just kept lifing along. <em>nu ni nu ni nu</em></p>
<p>Step outside for a moment. Just humor me on this.</p>
<p>What do you see. Really drink in the detail now.</p>
<p>Okay. There&#8217;s a car passing by. Or maybe a tree with some bird poop on it. A cat (hopefully white) passing the street. Oh look! A dog spilling your garbage for you to clean up later!</p>
<p>What did they have in common?</p>
<p>Nothing. </p>
<p>Check again.</p>
<p>Okay&#8230; Nothing. Just a bunch of disjointed events.</p>
<p>But one of you might say, &#8220;ah I disagree. What I saw was a spirited sports car driver showing off to his girlfriend and experiencing a thrill burning gas and polluting the environment.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ah. Sounds like you just gave meaning to some meaningless event.</p>
<p>Or another would say &#8220;Man, that dog is out to get me. He spills trash everyday so I have to clean it up&#8221;</p>
<p>Oho! Looks like you colored some other event with yet more meaning.</p>
<p>What am I driving at?</p>
<p>Brace yourself.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the cold hard truth: every event on this planet is meaningless.</p>
<p>Got that?</p>
<p>Life is meaningless. In fact, life has no purpose, no rhyme, no reason. Your life, my life, everyone&#8217;s life is <strong>empty and meaningless</strong>- a void existence formed from an infinite strand of disjointed events that branches out into infinite possibilities based on decisions made every moment.</p>
<p>Squirming? Hear me out.</p>
<p>Take yourself out of the Life equation. Just blink out of existence. Stop. Ponder this: do you think Existence, Destiny, The Universe would suddenly weep and grind to a halt? No way! Life just goes on&#8230;.. lifing along.</p>
<p>This is the meaning to life: that LIFE IS MEANINGLESS. With or without us, reality endures. But what gives all this some iota of value is that we give it significance. We give it subjective meaning.</p>
<p>You, I and everyone are simply Meaning-Making-Machines that ascribe meaning to what we observe around us.</p>
<p>Got that? Life is empty and meaningless AND everyone is a Meaning Making Machine. That&#8217;s the ultimate formula to life. </p>
<p>There is no meaning to the car rushing down the road, to the ferry crossing the channel, to the rocket landing on the moon, to George Bush taking a dump on the royal throne.</p>
<p>There is no inherent meaning to your trudging to work, eking out a living, raising a kid and throwing dishes at your spouse.</p>
<p>These are all events. Random events with no inherent meaning.</p>
<p>I bet you want to strangle me now. Or jump a bridge. After all, if life has no meaning, what&#8217;s the point of suffering through it (ah! another meaning)</p>
<p>But let me finish. Put away that .45</p>
<p>So&#8230; what&#8217;s the point to all this? To life? To these empty events?</p>
<p>Remember what I said earlier?</p>
<p>You are a Meaning Making Machine.</p>
<p>and Life is Empty and Meaningless.</p>
<p>Ask yourself:</p>
<p>What do you do when something is empty? YOU FILL IT UP!</p>
<p>Since you are a meaning-making-machine, <strong>you have the mandate  to forge your own personal meaning out of all these meaningless events</strong>. Simply fill life up with a meaning that is so powerful, so inspiring that you simply must bound out of bed every morning.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s that simple. Life is inherently empty, but YOU have the Power to give it meaning.</p>
<p>And do you already realize what kind of power that is? You suddenly open up a whole new world of possibilities!</p>
<p>Think about that.</p>
<p>Did you once think that because you got fired, lost your wife, or got mugged, that life is cruel and demonic?</p>
<p>Or did you think that because you won a million bucks at the lottery that God out there must love only you?</p>
<p>NO!! NO!! NO!! Life is not inherently cruel and demonic. Nor does God favor you any more than the average Joe.</p>
<p>These are rich meanings you ascribed to life simply because of random events.</p>
<p>But wow&#8230; how those arbitrary meanings shape your future for all eternity.</p>
<p>Think of how a rape victim would live the next 20 years. &#8220;It&#8217;s hell. Every man is a monster&#8221;</p>
<p>Or imagine how Kiyosaki arises every morning. &#8220;Life is great! I earned $200000 more in royalties today&#8221;</p>
<p>Get what I&#8217;m driving at.</p>
<p>Life Is Empty and Meaningless, but You Have to Power to Give it Meaning.</p>
<p>Positive or Negative.</p>
<p>And how you choose to view life shapes the rest of your fleeting existence on this planet. You literally wield near God-like powers to reinvent your tenure on this world. Did you realize that?</p>
<p>It all depends on the Meaning Life Has For You.</p>
<p>And the best thing about it is: You Chose That Meaning.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 04:34:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Something lurks in us that demands fulfillment. It is an inner desire to achieve our best possible self, to go through life at our finest level! You I and everyone nurses an inner drive to personal greatness- to grasp that star of Akabar. Since this is a subliminal desire, it does not often fully surface [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something lurks in us that demands fulfillment.</p>
<p>It is an inner desire to achieve our best possible self, to go through life at our finest level! You I and everyone nurses an inner drive to personal greatness- to grasp that star of Akabar. Since this is a subliminal desire, it does not often fully surface  in our everyday consciousness. Folks don&#8217;t even quickly understand that they even have it.</p>
<p>Nonetheless, our subconscious drive to greatness rests below the annals of our minds. And magically, our subconscious, being goal seeking, exerts effort to fulfill it.</p>
<p>Still, thousands fail to act to better themselves so that they can achieve superior greatness that can easily be theirs. They settle for mediocrity- or even yield completely. This unleashes an inner conflict between what they are and the greatness which their souls lust for in their lives.</p>
<p>This Inconsistency leads to depression. Then frustration. (and often suicide)</p>
<p>You know you&#8217;re afflicted with this grave inconsistency when you suffer a constant nagging sensation of frustration. Something&#8217;s wrong. You&#8217;ve got a vacuum in your life. And you feel you should do something to surmount it (you&#8217;re the biggest loser if you give up).</p>
<p>How do you escape this dire tribulation?</p>
<p>Allow me to recall that a few decades back, a research conducted at Harvard determined that dumb people (meaning low IQ) who were brainwashed that they were smart actually outperformed genuine smart people who were lazy. </p>
<p>Credo?</p>
<p>A man&#8217;s self-image ultimately shapes his behavior and helps him become what he envisions himself to be.</p>
<p>To become a truly great person, you must constantly and passionately picture yourself as being what you want to become.</p>
<p>Each and every day, you shal ACT AS IF YOU WERE THAT GREAT AND DESIRABLE and POWERFUL PERSOn.</p>
<p>Desire to be successful? Picture yourself as being successful.</p>
<p>Desire to be a star athlete? Rehearse the image of dominating the competition.</p>
<p>And do it every day of your life. </p>
<p>Tell yourself, &#8220;Self, Im in the process of getting more successful&#8221;</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>&#8220;Self, Im in the process of getting my kids into top flight schools&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>(it&#8217;s important to think &#8216;in the process&#8217; so you won&#8217;t say &#8220;Hey, I&#8217;m lying to myself. I&#8217;m not successful!&#8221;)</p>
<p>Remember this: Positive Visualization enacts the grand Law of Consistency. You cannot think one thing and do another.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t think Poverty and Suck in Riches.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t Curse and Enjoy Love.</p>
<p>Hence&#8230; the ultimate powertool for Your success lies in your mind. Think Big and You will be Big.</p>
<p>Your imagination knows no boundaries. Allow your imagination to take you to places you&#8217;ve never been and conquer frontiers you only dreamt off.</p>
<p>And you will fly high, and attract the affluence you&#8217;ve always desired.</p>
<p>Dominate your universe, friends! </p>
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		<title>Poor Negotiation Skills: Lose Your Shirt in 7 Days</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve seen intelligent folks negotiated out of a great bargain, denied of a critical bank loan, flunk at an IPO road show and even kicked out of their houses by their spouses. Just for one reason. They simply can’t meet halfway. The negotiation starts with both parties neither yielding nor accomodating. Each one is simply [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’ve seen intelligent folks negotiated out of a great bargain, denied of a critical bank loan, flunk at an IPO road show and even kicked out of their houses by their spouses.</p>
<p>Just for one reason.</p>
<p>They simply can’t meet halfway. The negotiation starts with both parties neither yielding nor accomodating. Each one is simply preoccuppied with getting the most out of the negotiation encounter.</p>
<p>Poor negotiation skills lead to misunderstanding, then suspicion, then ultimately withdrawal. It’s the fastest way to lose not just your shirt &#8211; but your associates and friends.</p>
<p>I’ve discovered four top negotiation skills that can make your next negotiation encounter a more satisfying one.</p>
<p>1. Never open with your position. Ask the other side, “So what would your offer be?” This way you keep your needs private and could bargain up or down based on what your negotiation sparring partners disclose.</p>
<p>2. Always come to the table with a focused outcome. If you know exactly what you want, you’ll know how to drive the negotiation within those parameters. Unfortunately, many folks come to the table not even having an inkling as to what they desire. So they get frustrated each time an off-the-hat suggestion gets rebuffed.</p>
<p>3. Learn to elicit critieria and to match that criteria. In NLP, if you can find the other side’s heirarchy of values by asking “What’s important to you about xxx”” at least thrice, you can find the underlying reasons for their proposals. Discover this, then you can easily and naturally tailor fit your suggestions to what they truly want.</p>
<p>4. Agree agree agree. At the onset and the middle part of the negotiation, you will naturally find it to your benefit to minimize blatant disagreement. Avoid the temptation to slam down fists and disagree because you feel it makes you look dominant. Rather, listen quietly, taken an open posture, smile, and couch your negations in rephrased statements that illuminate the beauty of your counter proposals.</p>
<p>Superb negotiation skills are built on this foundation. Develop them and you’ll happily discover more fulfilling outcomes.</p>
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