The Infinite Abundance pendant brought in private reviews that I’ve never expected. People emailed comments like-

From shocking feedback on ventures:

“Last night, an friend dropped a partnership proposal on my lap. It was a high yield idea I’d been playing with but I was to afraid to ask because we had bad blood years ago.”

to mundane scenarios:

“I got a steak order instead of the chicken I requested… and so the chef just made it a free upgrade instead of changing it”

Talk about making my day! It brought my clients abundance (which is good), and that also brought us abundance (which is also good). Then someone brought up a fantastic idea! (more…)

Feelings are darned important. The problem is, we tend to shuffle them under a carpet because we are afraid of being judged. That’s something I wondered about. Since when does society have the right to say you can feel this way or that? You are the absolute master of your emotions. You choose when to laugh or cry. Or jump the bridge!

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It’s been a lousy day. Everyone woke up late. You were stuck at gridlock for two hours. Coffee spilt on your Armani suit at the drive thru. Then, at office, the Board shows up and you’re unprepared. Fortunately your secretary calls that she’ll be absent, so you plot ahead how to take over her responsibilities. At 4pm, your 8pm date cancels.

You’re ready to scream. (more…)

Are You Making These 7 Deadly Mistakes With Women Without Even Knowing It?

Mistake # 1: Being Like Every Other Guy

Once upon a time, there was a man who saw a very attractive woman.
He was very nice and polite around her.

When he mustered up the courage to actually talk to her, he said one of the following lines: (more…)

Among couples that come in to counseling with relationship problems, the most common complaint about intimacy is: “We’re just too busy for sex.” This is especially true when the husband and wife are both working full time jobs. Add to that schedule a family of children to take care of, and it is quite understandable that their lives are very busy to include regular intimacy. But is a busy schedule the real reasons why these couples are lacking intimacy?

In dealing with couples for years now, I have talked with hundreds of men and women who will spend everyday planning their dinner or their wardrobe, get in their television shows each night, get to the gym three times per week, etc. but thinking nothing of putting a priority on planning and engaging intimacy with their partners. In terms of priorities, sex seems to usually come last, far behind all of the above typical schedule. These couples have literally schedule intimacy right out of their lives. Are you one of them? (more…)

Since Day ONE of the creation, blokes like you and I searched for that elusive reason to life.

“Why are we here?”

“What is our purpose?”

“Does the world follow some rhyme or reason?”

And check out the great books and authors that elaborated on the idea: Summa Theologica, The Egyptian Book of the Dead, The ‘Quoran, The Bible, Jean Paul Sarte, Socrates, Paulo Cohello, Donald Trump.

Okay, I arbitarily inserted up that last name.

But seriously. You never realized you were in the company of such eminence! Give yourself a pat on the back, Mr. Philosopher.

Stop, and consider how, after all that rheotoric, prose, and giddy exhortation, few of these dissertations truly arrived at some enlightening, jaw dropping Meaning of Life that literally gave you the golden answer to your personal existence. (people still keep searching!) (more…)

Something lurks in us that demands fulfillment.

It is an inner desire to achieve our best possible self, to go through life at our finest level! You I and everyone nurses an inner drive to personal greatness- to grasp that star of Akabar. Since this is a subliminal desire, it does not often fully surface in our everyday consciousness. Folks don’t even quickly understand that they even have it.

Nonetheless, our subconscious drive to greatness rests below the annals of our minds. And magically, our subconscious, being goal seeking, exerts effort to fulfill it.

Still, thousands fail to act to better themselves so that they can achieve superior greatness that can easily be theirs. They settle for mediocrity- or even yield completely. This unleashes an inner conflict between what they are and the greatness which their souls lust for in their lives. (more…)

I’ve seen intelligent folks negotiated out of a great bargain, denied of a critical bank loan, flunk at an IPO road show and even kicked out of their houses by their spouses.

Just for one reason.

They simply can’t meet halfway. The negotiation starts with both parties neither yielding nor accomodating. Each one is simply preoccuppied with getting the most out of the negotiation encounter.

Poor negotiation skills lead to misunderstanding, then suspicion, then ultimately withdrawal. It’s the fastest way to lose not just your shirt - but your associates and friends. (more…)

Have you ever felt strangely touched when you were in a place of worship? Logically, your mind tells you that there is nothing there, but your heart has registered something and your body reacts by slowing down almost as if in homage. This is a spiritual experience. Spiritual healing is based on the individual’s belief in the spirit. Spirituality is the recognition and acceptance of a powerful external force (some call it God) that has some influence on the individual.

This external force can provide inspiration, joy, guidance and peace of mind; these feelings often go beyond what is normally possible in the absence of conviction. (more…)

Thought field therapy (TFT) was developed in 1981 by Dr. Roger Callaghan. TFT can best be described as a totally non-invasive, drug free therapy that eliminates the negative energy in the body. This is done by addressing and stimulating the specific energy meridian points in the body in a precise and defined sequence. It is a New Age psychotherapy that relies on the fundamental principles underlying traditional Chinese medicine.

Thought field therapy originated interestingly enough when Dr. Callaghan was able to cure a patient of her water-phobia by asking her to tap on the point that connected with her stomach meridian. According to proponents of the system, the key lies in Dr. Callaghan’s discovery of the natural method in which psychological problems are solved.

Though field therapy operates on the principle that negative emotions result in physical problems because these emotions lead to energy blockages in the body. When the blockages are removed, the fears will disappear. Thus TFT seeks to cure anxieties by directly attacking the disturbing thought pattern. Interpreted in this fashion, TFT strikes at the root of the problem. (more…)