Many of this blog’s readers like to email me for quick tips on conversational hypnosis. In particular… the kind of hypnosis that makes women go all wide eyed and slack jawed when they spout their spiel.

Now, I usually direct them to our forum or the archives at the ultimate seduction yahoogroup .

“GOD, that’s too much!!” is what they’ exclaim after trying to wade through 50,000+ posts.

Tsk tsk tsk.

Who said dating was easy?

Anyway, I just stumbled across something that might make lives easier for you Fans of Women:

Check this Out:

Dark NLP -Forbidden Patterns

It’s Dark side of NLP… with a seductive twist. Much of what it covers is already in our forums, but in a spoon feeding format.

Want to be a sexual hypnotist? It’s the book for you. (aside from our notorious Psychic Seduction 5, of course) (more…)

Cardinal Rule for women who desire married: Never “demand” marriage. It is healthier for a woman to lose a man than to demand marriage.

History tells of married men - ten, twenty, thirty years later - who say, “I didn’t really wanr to marry her. She got pregnant and bullied me, and I married her under duress. I’m still furious about it, and I do not feel committed. That is the reason that I don’t lavish her the way she desires to be treated.”

Women, let him make his own decision. Do not force him. Instead of nagging, enjoy a walk. If he craves you enough, he will cooperate. Do not seduce him with wealth or sexual liberality, and don’t try to frighten him with angry pronouncement.

Often when a woman is ready to parley a (marriage) commitment, she discovers that her man isn’t. So, how does a woman “massage” the situation to goad it along - or leave it? It’s not simple. Winning a man often requires a gargantuan amount of tolerance. A first-rate man is tough to capture, and a woman can’t do anything explicit to capture him.

Imagine you have a grand committed relationship but you have never heard the words from him that particularly declare, “Will you marry me?” Most women troop to marriage counselors and say, “Please, how do I yank that proposal out of him? I’m feeling so stressed.” (more…)

As an independent and savvy woman who is in a loving relationship with a man, you may have elected to be the feminine type. Now should you hook up with a man who wants to lead with his ideas, plans, and goals, then do not ask him about his feelings. Why? Because all you will get is: “Fine. Okay. Why do you ask?” You will constantly do better if you disclose him your position openly and ask him what he feels and wants to do about them.

Macho men who demand respect often evade the point when queried how they feel. They may be far from “fine” or “well” at all, but they refuse to disclose up because they feel too exposed. Masculine men need time to think before they share or act upon their feelings, especially when building a nurtured relationship with a woman they care for.

The macho man knows that a woman will either offer a safe haven for his feelings or hurt them, so normally the man who wants to be respected will keep mum as the Bank of England. But he will disclose willingly once you have forged a non-threatening arena for him. (Of course, sensitive men who are in touch of their feelings and want to be cherished do not fear disclosing and actually look forward to getting the woman’s perspective.) (more…)

Be a Grand Lover!

How many are scared of learning more about your relationship and your future mate. “What if I realize we are incompatible?” “What if I discover out she doesn’t love me?” “What if I find out we are in fact separate individuals with separate wants and wishes?”

A great deal men and women refuse to peer too closely at the person they live with. This may be the safe path, but it is also imprudent. As we all know, the nature of relationship, the nature of humans, is to want harmony, routine, stale comfort as in, “Let’s make sure everything stays the same for all eternity.” Change is terrifying, even distressing, but it is predestined. Change is the reality of the universe. (more…)