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Bet You Didn’t Know the One Best Way To Communicate! This is no big secret: your words and deeds convey who you are. Human communication and behavior drop into three essential groupings: Passiveness; Aggressiveness; Assertiveness. Passiveness is a unwillingness or incapacity to confidently communicate what you think and feel. Decades back, our society rewarded women [...]

A most efficient way a man can perk up his communication skills with a woman is by listening to her feelings. This might be tricky since he is coming from a different standpoint. The earliest thing a man should do is to keep in mind how rapidly disagreeable feelings can surface in a dialogue that [...]

Humanizing Communication Among Men And Women Once young boys cuss and spew foul language, their deeds are often tolerated as typical for their age. We take for granted that they are aiming to act big. Grown men flavor their vocabulary with sporadic profanity and it is customarily acceptable. On the flip side, female actions are [...]

How To Craft A Killer Complaint Letter Each year, hundreds of millions of people jot a letter of complaint. Since you are one of the crowd, you’ll want your letter to gain attention. Place yourself in the position of the person getting your letter and recall that your goal is not to vengeance or to [...]

1. Avoid getting in a power struggle. There is a noteworthy relationship between power and authority. Several times, as power increases, influence decreases and vice versa. Famous sociologist Erik Erikson noted that children turn out to be emotionally bothered when they hold power they cannot responsibly control. Clearly defined customs and rules are required to [...]

The aim of decent listening is to gain maximum understanding. Many people home in only to the words of a speaker or to the body language or the timbre of voice and fail to listen to the entire message. To grasp a message, each of these is important. I recommend that to hear the entire [...]

Rebuff occurs when someone says, “no” to your proposal, appeal, or action. Some people desire the approval of other people. They feel defenseless when told “no.” But the assertive person accepts “no” as a refutation in a specific situation and doesn’t imagine that he is being rejected as a person. Communication is the manifestation of [...]

As you share feelings with a man, let him feel you are not trying to impose on him what to do. Avoid badgering him with too many questions or he may believe you are meddling, or trying to change him. He will either become distrustful or agree with you for the moment to appease you. [...]

Using active listening through a spat is the first move you can take to mitigate the situation and crack whatever problems have surfaced. Realize, nonetheless, that when people feel strongly about an issue, their emotions will impact their ability to correspond and listen. It is imperative therefore to utilize a blend of active and reflective [...]

The genteel way to apologize is to assert that you mourn a specific offense. Offer to convey amends or, if amends seem definitely called for, proclaim your intention of making amends as well as specify how you will do this. If you’re uncertain how best to deal with the situation, explain several possible solutions and [...]